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Gary W. Petrini

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“My love and prayers are with you Lynn and family. Gary was a special person! I am sure he is a special place in heaven for the wonderful way he lead...Read More »
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“I'm sorry for your loss. I hope the Petrini family will draw comfort from the words found at Psalm 145:18. ”
2 of 20 | Posted by: A friend

“Dear Lynn and all the Petrini Family,I am so sorry to hear about Gary's passing. I will always have warm feelings for him. We could not have opened...Read More »
3 of 20 | Posted by: Julie Medley - Needham, MA

“My deepest sympathy to Gary's family. Gary and I were distant cousins. His grandparents lived across the street from me and we spent many summer days...Read More »
4 of 20 | Posted by: Eileen O'Connor - Needham, MA

“Gary was a true gentle man, in every way.A good friend, and an ardent supporter of all that is good in Needham. Leaves great memories for all.Helen...Read More »
5 of 20 | Posted by: Helen & Mel Colman - Parrish, FL

“My sincere condolences to you and your family Greg. Your Dad sounds like a wonderful man, like you! ”
6 of 20 | Posted by: Walter Byrne - Rockland, MA

“Lynn I'm so very sorry for your loss. We are out of town but have you in our thoughts and prayers ”
7 of 20 | Posted by: Karen Smith - Needham, MA

“Dear Lynn..I was so sad to read of Gary's Leaving us. He was so special in every way. I miss the days when I would see you both. My thoughts are...Read More »
8 of 20 | Posted by: Ginny Glynn - Wolfeboro.N.H.

“Greg and family - my condolences to you, your children and the extended family for the loss of an engaged community member and boisterous family man. ”
9 of 20 | Posted by: Daniel Mackay - Schodack Landing, NY

“Dear Lynn,My mom was keeping me informed on how he was doing. I was so very sorry to hear of his passing. I enjoyed very much, my time working for...Read More »
10 of 20 | Posted by: Lisa - MA

“Dear Lynn & Family- Gary had a very special place in many peoples hearts from Priscilla Beach. His booming voice, kind manners and willingness to...Read More »
11 of 20 | Posted by: A friend

“Many years ago I enjoyed looking out the front window of my office on Oak St. watching Lee work on the preschool building project. More recently, I...Read More »
12 of 20 | Posted by: paul richards - needham, MA

“The Krug Family sends their sincere condolences to the Petrini Family ”
13 of 20 | Posted by: A friend

“Dear Lynn and all the Petrini family,We are out of the country in France but news of Gary's death spread far and wide because he was such a great guy...Read More »
14 of 20 | Posted by: George Hoffmeister - Needham, MA

“Our sincere condolances and love to the Petrini Family on the passing of Gary. ”
15 of 20 | Posted by: Robert Toran - Walpole/Needham, MA

“Our sincere condolances and love to the Petrini Family on the passing of Gary. Sincerely, The Toran Family. ”
16 of 20 | Posted by: Robert Toran - Walpole, MA

“GArry was a wonderful to us over the years. My heart goes out to the family Sue Dooley Kennedy ”
17 of 20 | Posted by: A friend

“To the Petrini Family, We are so sorry for the loss of Gary. With sympathy Bob and Carol Giumetti ”
18 of 20 | Posted by: Bob and Carol Giumetti - Needham, MA

“To the Petrini's so sorry that Gary is no longer with us. May his memories comfort you all he will be was a pleasure to have been part of...Read More »
19 of 20 | Posted by: Sumbo Olundegun - Stoughton, MA

“To our dear friend. We are missing you so much and our Patriot's games will never be the same. ”
20 of 20 | Posted by: Dan abd Patricia MacDonald - FL

Gary W. Petrini of Needham, MA passed away peacefully on October 3, 2017. He was 81.
Gary was born in Needham on September 2, 1936, the only child of Lee Petrini and Eva Petrini Hosmer. He was the loving and cherished husband of Lynn Grasser Petrini for 54 years. Gary was a lifelong Needham resident who also enjoyed homes on Priscilla Beach in Plymouth and in Naples, FL. He attended Needham public schools and then Needham High School where he wrestled, played baseball and football and graduated in 1954. He graduated from Babson College in 1957 thanks in part to a scholarship from the Town of Needham. Gary later studied Law at Suffolk University in Boston and Business at Harvard Business School. Gary served in the US Army Reserves from 1958 to 1962.
For nearly 60 years, Gary worked at L. Petrini and Son, Inc. which later became Petrini Corp where he served as President and CEO. The family real estate development business, now in its third generation, was a source of great pride. Those who worked with Gary will remember his passion and his strong and dynamic leadership style. There are many families in and around Needham who came into contact with Gary through his professional work and later became good friends.
Gary was a tireless supporter of his hometown and over the years was involved in numerous Needham-related charitable efforts. He was a long-time Town Meeting member. He was active with the Needham Community Council which presented him with a Distinguished Service Award in 1990. He served on the Needham Park & Recreation Commission and was instrumental in the construction of the original Rosemary Lake pool. Gary served for many years on the Needham Permanent Public Building Committee which oversaw the re-construction of several schools and municipal buildings. He was a Trustee of the Glover Memorial Hospital prior to its evolution as the Beth Israel Deaconess Needham Hospital. Gary was a member for many years of the Needham Business Association and was honored as their Member of the Year in 2001. He was a Trustee of the Needham Historical Society and was an honored member of the Needham Exchange Club which once named him their Man of the Year. Gary believed that Needham had been good to him and in return he dedicated much of his time, energy and resources back to the Town.
Gary was the beloved husband of Lynn Grasser Petrini for 54 years. The devoted father of Lisa and her husband Rob of Dover; Greg and his wife Mary of Dover; and Lauren and her husband Bob of Needham. Loving grandfather of Olivia, Emily and Carly Bell; Madeline, Curt, and Lee Petrini and Annie, Will, Jack and Ned Hentschel. Gary derived great joy from his extended family and closest friends. His 10 grandchildren will long remember their beloved Grampy stationed at the kitchen table with a newspaper and an ice coffee quietly overseeing the bustle around him. The foundation of Gary's loving family was built on his marriage to Lynn, the undisputed love of his life. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St Joseph's Church at 1360 Highland Avenue, Needham, Saturday October 7, 2017 at 10AM. Services will conclude with a burial at the Needham Cemetery in Needham. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend visiting hours on Friday October 6th from 4PM - 8PM at the Eaton Funeral Home at 1351 Highland Avenue, Needham.
The Petrini family wishes to thank Gary's excellent caregivers including those at North Hill in Needham and at the Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital.
In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to one of two organizations dear to Gary: Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital–Needham, Attn: Kelly Wallace, Development Office, 148 Chestnut Street, Needham, MA 02492. Please make checks payable to "Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital–Needham" and include "In memory of Gary Petrini" in the check memo line. Gifts may also be made online at, or to the Needham Historical Society at 1147 Central Avenue, Needham 02492.